Day 1 of 7
Set your own terms
Start with how you treat yourself. People take their reading of your standing largely from you, and most of them are not looking closely enough to disagree.
Sit with this
Where did you wait for permission today that nobody was actually requiring you to ask for?
Today’s law — Law 34: Act Like a King to Be Treated Like One
Day 2 of 7
Stop filling silence
Standing still is easy until a pause opens. The urge to fill it is yesterday's need for permission wearing different clothes, and it costs you more than it buys.
Sit with this
What did you say today only because the silence had gone on longer than felt comfortable?
Today’s law — Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
Day 3 of 7
Move before certainty
Composure you never act on is only a posture. Half-measures announce doubt more loudly than the risk itself, because people read the hedge rather than the plan behind it.
Sit with this
Which decision did you soften today, and what did the hedging actually protect you from?
Today’s law — Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness
Day 4 of 7
Carry it lightly
Acting decisively works better when it looks unforced. Narrating the effort invites people to price your work by what it cost you rather than by what it is worth.
Sit with this
Who did you tell today how hard something had been, and why did you want them to know?
Today’s law — Law 30: Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless
Day 5 of 7
Guard the record
Ease only reads as competence when there is a record behind it. Reputation is the accumulated version of what you do when nobody is checking, and it arrives before you do.
Sit with this
What did you do today that someone who knows you well would have predicted in advance?
Today’s law — Law 5: So Much Depends on Reputation — Guard It with Your Life
Day 6 of 7
Leave the seams
A record with no visible flaws stops being credible and starts being resented. One honest limitation, plainly stated, makes everything else you claim easier to believe.
Sit with this
What did you admit today that you would normally have quietly covered over instead?
Today’s law — Law 46: Never Appear Too Perfect
Day 7 of 7
Stand for something
Quiet confidence still has to be recognisable. Decide what people should reliably get from you, then be that consistently enough that they no longer have to guess.
Sit with this
If a colleague had described you in one sentence today, what would they have said?
Today’s law — Law 25: Create a Powerful Image That Stands Out